The single most common reason a khula filing is delayed is a missing nikah nama, usually because it is in the marital home. That is a solvable problem and it should not stop you starting. This checklist covers the core documents, what supports the claims you should be making alongside khula, and the workarounds when papers are inaccessible.
Core documents
| Document | Purpose | If unavailable |
|---|---|---|
| Nikah nama | Proves the marriage and its terms | Obtain a copy from the union council that registered it |
| Your CNIC | Identity | Renew if expired before filing |
| Husband's CNIC number | Identification and service | Give full name, father's name and address |
| Husband's current address | Service of summons | Workplace address as an alternative |
| Dower details | Amount fixed, prompt or deferred, what was paid | Take from the nikah nama copy |
| Plaint | The suit itself - grounds and relief | Drafted by you or your lawyer |
If the nikah nama is in the marital home and you cannot retrieve it, apply to the union council where the marriage was registered for a certified copy. This is routine and does not require the husband's cooperation. Not having the original is not a reason to delay.
Documents for the claims you should also make
File everything in one suit. These documents support the claims that too many women pursue separately, years later.
| Claim | Supporting documents |
|---|---|
| Dower (unpaid or deferred) | Nikah nama columns; any receipt or acknowledgement |
| Maintenance for iddat | Evidence of the husband's income - payslips, business records |
| Arrears of maintenance | Records of the period unsupported; bank statements |
| Dowry articles (jahez) | A written list, purchase receipts, photographs, wedding video |
| Child maintenance | Children's B-form, school fee receipts, medical costs |
| Custody | Children's B-form, birth certificates, school records |
The dowry list deserves particular attention. Prepare it carefully with as much supporting evidence as you can - photographs from the wedding, receipts, and any list prepared at the time. Recovering dowry articles is difficult without it.
Evidence supporting the grounds
Depending on the grounds relied on, gather what you have:
- Messages and correspondence showing the state of the relationship.
- Medical records where there has been violence - see protection orders.
- Police reports if any were made.
- Witness details - family members aware of the circumstances.
- Evidence of non-maintenance - the absence of support over a period.
- Records of separation - when you left, and where you have been living.
Save what exists now. Phones get taken or replaced, accounts are deleted and messages disappear. Export chats and email them to yourself, and keep copies somewhere the other side cannot reach.
If you cannot access your documents
Common where a woman has left the marital home without her papers. Practical routes:
- Union council for a certified copy of the nikah nama.
- NADRA for a replacement CNIC and for B-forms and family registration records.
- Schools for children's records.
- Banks for statements in your own name.
- The court can order production of documents held by the other side.
- Secondary evidence - photographs, witness statements - where originals are genuinely unavailable.
Do not wait until you have a complete set. File with what you have and supplement as documents arrive; the alternative is a delay that serves only the other side.
Preparing the plaint
The plaint should set out:
- Particulars of both parties, with CNIC numbers and addresses.
- Details of the marriage - date, place, nikah nama registration.
- The grounds on which khula is sought.
- Details of children, if any.
- The dower position - fixed, paid, outstanding.
- Every relief claimed - khula, dower, maintenance, dowry articles, custody.
- A list of documents annexed.
Jurisdiction generally follows where the wife resides or last resided with the husband, so confirm the correct Family Court before filing - see our khula procedure guide.
Pre-filing checklist
- Nikah nama - original or certified copy from the union council.
- Your CNIC, valid and unexpired.
- Husband's full particulars, CNIC number and current address.
- An alternative address for service, such as his workplace.
- Dower details taken from the nikah nama.
- Children's B-forms and birth certificates, if applicable.
- Dowry list with whatever supporting evidence exists.
- Evidence of the husband's income, if maintenance is claimed.
- Messages, medical records or police reports supporting the grounds.
- Everything scanned and stored somewhere safe and private.
Point ten matters more than it looks. Store copies in an email account the other side has no access to, with a password they do not know. Documents kept only on a phone that may be taken are not secure.
Keeping your documents safe
Where a woman is leaving a difficult marriage, document security is a practical concern rather than a theoretical one.
- Scan everything and email it to an account the other side does not know about, with a password they have never had.
- Keep physical originals with a trusted relative or your lawyer, not in the marital home.
- Export message threads before phones are taken or replaced.
- Photograph dowry articles in place if you still have access.
- Do not rely on a shared cloud account the husband can access.
- Change passwords on email and social accounts, and enable two-factor authentication.
If accounts have already been accessed without permission, that is an offence in itself - see our guide to recovering a compromised account.
Documents supporting an interim maintenance application
If you need support while the case runs, an interim maintenance application is usually possible. It is decided quickly and on documents, so prepare them.
- Evidence of the husband's income - payslips, salary certificate, business records, tax filings, or evidence of his standard of living.
- Evidence of your own position - whether you are earning, and your expenses.
- Children's costs - school fees, medical expenses, daily needs.
- Evidence that support has stopped - bank statements showing no transfers.
- Your living arrangements and any rent you are paying.
Where you do not have his payslips - which is common - evidence of lifestyle assists: property he owns, the vehicle he drives, business premises, school fees he pays for other children. Courts assess capacity on the whole picture, not only on documents you cannot obtain.
Frequently asked questions
What documents are required to file for khula in Pakistan?
The nikah nama, your CNIC, the husband's particulars and address for service, details of the dower fixed and paid, and the plaint setting out grounds and relief. For ancillary claims add children's B-forms, a dowry list and evidence of the husband's income.
I do not have the nikah nama. Can I still file?
Yes. Apply to the union council where the marriage was registered for a certified copy. This is routine and does not require your husband's cooperation, so a missing original should not delay you.
What if my in-laws have all my documents?
Obtain replacements - the union council for the nikah nama, NADRA for CNIC and B-forms, schools for children's records, banks for statements. The court can also order production of documents held by the other side.
What is a dowry list and why does it matter?
A written list of the articles you brought to the marriage. Recovering dowry articles is difficult without it, so prepare it carefully with photographs, receipts and any list made at the time.
Should I claim maintenance and custody in the same suit?
Yes. Filing khula alone and then pursuing dower, maintenance, dowry articles and custody separately means years in court instead of months. Claim everything together.
Where do I file the khula suit?
In the Family Court with jurisdiction, which generally follows where the wife resides or last resided with the husband. Confirm before filing, as the wrong forum costs months.
Sources & official references
- West Pakistan Family Courts Act 1964 - jurisdiction and procedure of the Family Courts
- Muslim Family Laws Ordinance 1961 - the governing statute on the official Pakistan Code
- NADRA - computerised marriage and divorce certificates